How often do we assume things before we try and find out what is really going on? It happens a lot. Someone would do something, and you would instantly interpret it in a wrong way, you forget about how good this person might be, or the extreme possibility that the mistake was not intentional, and you hold on to your suspicions, sometimes blinded by them.
We do that. We all do, but then when we realize that we were very unfair to that person, even though you might not have said anything to him/her, the guilt inside would start building up inside of you. I hate this feeling. Just makes me uncomfortable, and makes me doubt whether I had the ability to judge people properly, yet, it's so relieving in those cases when you find out that your doubts were just from your imagination, and that your trust to that person should always stay as it is, actually, it can sometimes help in strengthening the bond, no matter what it was, you just feel more comfortable knowing that your trust was well deserved.
Posted by Noors at 11:44 PM
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its not as much paranoya (sorry no insult intended here) as it is the sense of insecurity..
I have the same problem...sometimes..
you favor that someone so dear to you tells you that they love you or hold you so dear to their heart and when they don't you assume something else immediately and it does get to your head - seriously..
the way to solve this is to basically involve yourself in something that busies your mind for a while until the whole thing is sorted out, even with suspicions in mind...
ask and ye shall be delivered... he he he he...i call that a Ghostly commandment... ;o)
just busy yourself, don't tell them you've been thinking that way. ask what happened and in the end you'll see that your suspicions were actually playing with your mind..
in the meanwhile, get yourself a nice Baskin Robbins Rainbow Sherbet ice cream...it'll do 41 wonders
and sometimes people can decieve you twice ;)
sorry ..
my mistake...i meant 31 wonders...lol
just had to clear that up before someone starts breathing down my neck...(hint hint muscati...he he)
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